America american woman dating nigerian man
Back then, whenever we have any argument, she'll tell me am so African. boganj: OKAY yall i have been going wih this man for about 2 months and we were almost perfect from the start until thing start crashing down i although when we started dating i had no idea he was nigerian untill a week after us being together i never really cared to much because he seemed to be a great guy i also new that thing that he does was going to be different from thing i wasnt use to but i was willing to see pass that because i was really falling for this man he did everything i asked of him and vise versa he always wanted to be dominate and controlling almost possessive but i took it as he loved me which he did i tried to be very patient but he had a very bad temper which but a dent in our relationship i am 19 years old and he is 21 which he felt was a problem at first but we got passed it i started to really love him but his actions wouldnt let me he is very controlling insecure and sometime mindless he felt his word was always over mine because i was young and a american i actually dont put nigerians down because some of them are great just have to have patients to deal with them Finestlex: How come the only Canadian I dated was full of poo. We all have good and bad sides but we must embrace both in someone we love.
Back then, whenever we have any argument, she'll tell me am so African. I ain't bossy when it comes to a relationship so I wouldn't let anyone play the role of a boss in my relationship..
She sometimes say she hates black but she's a dependent of Jamaica. She asked me to move into her apartment and I said no, she told me I was staying at my place so I could cheat on her, I had my place before I met her. I broke up with my girl last month cos she's too proud of herself that she's Canadian and am not. Of cos I can't be an option to anyone when I make you a priority.
I perfectly understood we got different backgrounds but she wanted me to act Canadian when am not. I never knew she was Canadian and never asked her, she told me.
You knew this before you agreed to date each other so i think the best to be ready to face all the joy of relationships and other side of it.cooking & cleaning?
Sometimes I think common sense should tell a man how to act towards his woman, but then I remember we have different views, I just basically would like to know why he can't/ or won't diverge away from his traditions for just a while (relationship wise), because I consider myself to be feminist, yet I've sacrificed some of that pride and cooked a few meals, cleaned up a bit, and done so without griping or complaining, wonder if he'd do the same, You will definitely expect different things like behaviours and understanding of opinions.
---The reasons behind which I'm opening this topic is, because I'm currently in college and dating a Nigerian man (Yoruba) for the first time.
I tend to be very patient and willing to learn new things, so INSTEAD of getting angry when I don't understand his behavior, I try to remember we have our differences.
I couldn't cope with her feeling I only met her in order to have my papers.
We barely dated couple of weeks and she asked me to get her pregnant so she could help me with papers.
that I am sure you agree often exists between Africans and African Americans.