Dating she is not right for me
I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.I have lived my entire life, barring the past 7 years, in Southern California.Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.Penetrating that group of friends, playing “the game” in order to get to your “target girl” is hard work, and sometimes does not work if you don’t speak Spanish well enough for her to understand.Many guys who come to Colombia cannot pick up girls in their own native language let alone in Spanish and some even have the audacity to say that the women here are just “gold diggers” or “too difficult” and that is not accurate at all.The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from some girls here in Medellin.
I can tell they are going to work because normally they will have a badge around their neck or pinned to their shirt or pants.Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.Seeing beautiful women here is so common that Colombian men don’t even turn to look, it’s ridiculous.Hot Medellin girls are not the sole reason for this rise in tourism to “The City of Eternal Spring”, but it is definitely up there.Furthermore, I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism and prostitution in Colombia and I know that there are many strip clubs and brothels in Medellin; however, strippers and pros are not the types of girls that I date, nor is it something I would like to promote; therefore, I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.
Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.