” are all phrases that shouldn’t be heard time you go out with your boyfriend. Likewise, if it takes him 12 hours to text you back, never answers an email or a phone call that comes from you, or goes away with his friends for the weekend without texting or calling once, he’s a major jerk. You obviously deserve better than that, so dump the joker and find a guy who will appreciate everything that makes you unique.
[Read: 10 signs you’re dating a self-obsessed narcissist] #7 He doesn’t ask what he did wrong and blames you immediately.If you didn’t have a thing for his girlfriend, he might be a great guy, one you would like a lot. ) there’s a good possibility of a very common problem here, one you may not have run into. It’s a wonderful way for a guy to develop a huge emotional trauma. Say for instance, she dumps the asshole with no drama, no ongoing threats and suicide attempts and blowups… Even if all the (highly unlikely) things I mentioned above do happen, there is a good chance she will dump you and end up with another “asshole”. They somehow seem to need that macho shit in their lives. Even if she sleeps with you, she will be thinking about him.Even if you ask him to do something more, he’ll rarely stick to it, and will quickly revert to his selfish bedroom habits. Getting to know an asshole is pretty easy; he will constantly talk about himself, and rarely let you get a word in edgewise.You may think that he’s getting to know you when he asks questions, but those mostly lead to his own experiences or thoughts on a subject.
It’s not surprising, considering how much the media perpetuates the idea of assholes as the ones who you’re supposed to save and fall in love with. Women deserve to date someone who is considerate, morally conscientious, and just plain polite. There are those who pride themselves on being that way, while there are others who don’t realize that they’re being assholes. They will never admit that they’re being jerks, unless you call them out on it.