How to stop dating commitment phobic men
Though my guy was not able to articulate as well as yours did I have seen him go to a dark place and completely shut down.
While I do understand that he is not intentionally trying to be hurtful it is hard to not hold him accountable for his actions and not getting the counseling to try and resolve the issue for himself. I do see some signs of it in man I was involved with, but at some point we all make an implosive decisions.
It has been said that the gates to hell are locked from the inside. I don't want to have some crazy dating relationship for the next 30 yrs of my life, on the other hand I don't want any one else. This is the must statement to understand and to repeat to yourself.
My only advice to women who were left by CP is leave him alone. I have been in a relationship with a commitment phobic man for four years now and at first when he walked away I was left completely beside myself due to not understanding what I did to cause him to leave so abruptly.
After researching and reading several books on the subject I now have a clearer understanding of what goes on inside of his mind.
It could be from an abusive relationship with a relative.
If this has happened to you, trusting again is something you may not be ready for.
When someone you love or are connected to betrays you, the healing process is a deep one and can take some time.