Self esteem and rebound dating
If you need to feel needed, you have Florence Nightingale tendencies.
Long-Term Struggles – Some unavailable relationships can go the distance in terms of time but have all sorts of problems within them, even when there is history, a ‘title’, a legal piece of paper, or kids.
They’re the combination of illusions and denial, but fantasy relationships also include virtual relationships and anything where because of distanced contact– this includes when you get hijacked by your feelings and then project them onto the person and assume there’s more between you than there is, and getting carried away with online relationships that don’t translate into offline at all or are mostly conducted through words instead of human interaction.
I’ve also heard from a hell of a lot of people that wait around for someone that pops up occasionally and then disappears.
And remember: If you’re in one of these relationships, it means you’re off the market for an available relationship making you unavailable yourself.
Being available to an unavailable isn’t the same as being available – it’s like putting a cap on yourself and limiting your options.
If you have a habit of being in rebound involvements, you are The Buffer.
Affairs – A messy combo of one person rebelling and the other competing, one or sometimes both of you, are cheating on someone else and you play second fiddle.
Think about how much time, energy, and heartache you would save if you could determine if he’s the kind of guy who will commit right off the bat.And with that, I bring you the five types of guys to avoid dating, and tips on what to do if you’re already dating one of the types.TYPE 1: The guy who gets too intimate too soon When a guy is over eager it can mean a few things, none of them good.Remember: if your relationship is missing the ‘landmarks’ – commitment, consistency, progression, balance, and intimacy – you’re dealing with unavailability issues.Whether it’s emotional, mental, physical, or spiritual unavailability – they’re unavailable for an available healthy relationship.
It also includes remaining with someone that you know shags around on you or who has ’emotional’ affairs.