Why bother with online dating dating a former meth addict
Just today, I was on the phone with a client who was sharing the same experience with me: “It wasn’t until she showed me one really GOOD email from a guy that she started to get it.
He asked her a silly question and started grilling her with more and more trivia questions, teasing her about what she might win if she got all the questions right.
Wouldn’t it stand to reason that if you took the time to write something interesting and creative back to these guys, you might discover that they actually have a personality?
I mean, from the majority of your emails, you sound really boring, too.
I may email again, saying, “If you want to know anything just ask”, etc. It’s that you probably haven’t given her a compelling reason to be.
but I still get no questions in return to start a conversation. If you want to know why your email correspondence online is generally flat and falls apart after a few emails, you have to look in the mirror and take responsibility for your part in it.
Who would a woman rather go out with – the boring lunkhead who asks for her number before he’s had a chance to charm her, or the witty guy whose every email she anticipates with delight? So do yourself a favor, Dwayne: stop beating up on yourself because she doesn’t sound interested.
Be more interesting, and you’ll never have to wonder if there was anything else that you could do on your own behalf.
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And don’t forget to let me know how it goes…Also, if her profile is lame and generic, expect her responses to your emails to be the same.
Don’t be surprised when a chick whose entire profile consists solely of the phrase, “I love shopping, traveling and my dog,” doesn’t have a clever retort to your email.
I seem to run into this a lot and haven’t seen this addressed.
In my first email, I usually ask a few questions and figure the female will answer them, which they usually do, but then they don’t ask anything of me but still seem interested.